How to deal with haters

HOW TO DEAL WITH HATERS

Let�s talk about three tips for dealing with haters and how to use critique as an opportunity to grow!

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"The Shadow" by Carl Jung

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TIP 1: The narrative shift

You get to decide how negative feedback affects you.

TIP 2: Gratitude practice

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TIP 3: LEARNING LESSON

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But bullying is not an opinion!

Watch the whole video on youtube!

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